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Health & Sex
Cruising and Hookup Etiquette: Socks On or Off?
Explore the dos and don'ts of sexual etiquette, from sweaty encounters to the great socks debate.
Culture
The Gaymer's Playersexual Debate
Explore "playersexuality" in the gaming community, diving into its impact, pros, and cons, and hearing from fellow gamers about their experiences.
Relationships
Ditching Digital Drama: Matchmaking is Making a Comeback
We discuss the transition from sadfishing to the resurgence of matchmaking, examining its benefits and challenges in modern dating.
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Vibrate Higher and Harder
Vibrational frequencies can influence our relationships and personal growth, this episode shares insights on aligning with energies that uplift and inspire.
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Personal Growth
Express Yourself: How to Be Confident with TheeAlexanderJ
Join us as we chat with the unapologetically authentic TheeAlexanderJ, exploring the journey to confidence, authenticity, and joy. Discover how he maintains his bold persona and inspires others through his vibrant online presence.
Personal Growth
100% Delulu: Using Delusion to Get What You Want
Through personal anecdotes, celebrity examples, and practical tips, Daniel and Garet explore the transformative power of believing in your dreams, visualizing success, and overcoming mental barriers.
Relationships
Dating, Friends and Competition (with Love Daddy Trev)
Daniel and Garet discuss with love expert Trevor Kuhn the unique challenges and dynamics of dating within close-knit gay communities, emphasizing the importance of self-love, authentic connections, and realistic expectations, especially during events like pride.
Community
Power in Gay Pride: Demanding the Love & Respect You Deserve
Daniel and Garet explore the transformative power of embracing and expressing gay pride daily, delving into visibility, acceptance, equality, resilience, and action.
Relationships
Looking for Friends or FWB? (with Mindset Coach Kevin Kasir)
Gay mindset coach Kevin Kasir joins Daniel and Garet to discuss cultivating confidence, authenticity, and building meaningful friendships in the LGBTQIA+ community.
Personal Growth
Identity, Intimacy and Influence (with Brian Spitulnik, LMSW)
The core issues of shame, the importance of chosen families, and the challenges of forming authentic connections in a digital age with special guest, psychotherapist, Brian Spitulnik.
Relationships
The Dating Age Limit & Cross-Generational Relationships
Explore the nuanced experiences of dating with age gaps and celebrate the diverse ways love can manifest in the LGBTQIA+ community,.
Relationships
Stop Cheating on Yourself and Build Honest Relationships
Explore the fine details of modern love as Daniel and Garet delve into flirting, boundaries, and the bold art of knowing your worth in this insightful episode of Modern Gays.
Relationships
Gay AI Boyfriends and Intimacy
Explore the impact of artificial intelligence on the queer community, from digital dating to gym culture stereotypes.
Relationships
Building Relationships: Go Deeper and Cut The Small Talk
Explore the complexities of relationships, unearthing the power of vulnerability, personalized love languages, and the nuanced dynamics of friendships with exes, in a candid conversation that promises laughter, insights, and a journey to deeper connections.
Relationships
The Future of Dating: Insights into 2024's Dating Trends
It's our first anniversary of Modern Gays! Today we return to our roots and decode the new lingo and trends shaping love and relationships in 2024, reflecting on personal growth, music, and the complexities of modern dating.
Relationships
Don’t Make It Awkward: Dealing with Past & Undefined Relationship Run-Ins
Dive into the rollercoaster ride of re-encountering exes, old friends, and almost-acquaintances in the scene, dishing out savvy tips and hearty laughs on how to handle these moments with grace and a bit of cheeky charm.
Personal Growth
Radical Optimism: 6 Steps to a Brighter Queer Tomorrow
Embracing a hopeful and positive outlook, inspired by Dua Lipa's album and the power of queer resilience, can empower the LGBTQ+ community to navigate life's challenges with grace.
Culture
Throuple Dynamics on Screen with ‘Open To It’ Actor Jason Caceres
Jason Caceres, star of "Open To It," delves into his journey as an out actor, the dynamics of throuples, and the significance of authentic queer representation in media.
Health & Sex
Peter Pan Syndrome: Are We Afraid to Grow Up? (with Angel Serrata)
Explore how to break the chains of delayed adolescence, societal pressures, and the cyclical search for validation in places that leave us feeling more lost than found.
Personal Growth
Living Authentically: Building Your Values Through Fluency
What is the true essence of authenticity? How can we use the idea of fluency to discover our most authentic selves?
Relationships
The Advantages of Dating a Kinkster
Explore the complexities and joys of kink culture, discussing its history, societal perceptions, and the non-sexual benefits of being a kinkster, complemented by listener questions on navigating kinks in relationships.
Relationships
Don't Ignore The Signs: How to Get the Honeymoon Phase Back
Essential strategies and signs to look out for when reigniting the spark and navigating your way back to the blissful honeymoon phase of a relationship.
Culture
What We Do for Love (and DILFs) with OutTV’s Nigel Battle
Exploring the highs and lows of love and identity, Modern Gays hosts a candid interview with Nigel Battle, the charming star from OutTV's 'For the Love of DILFs', delving into his unique experiences on the show and in life.
Health & Sex
Secret Sweaty Science: Armpits, Pheromones and You
Let's get sweaty and scientific about pheromones and our attraction to armpits. Daniel and Garet explore the unique ways scent influences our desires and relationships.
Culture
Openly Gay Debate: Media's Role in Shaping LGBTQ+ Views
Exploring the evolving language of LGBTQ+ representation, this episode gets into the debate around the term "openly gay" and its impact on perception and identity. Tags: news, community, podcast
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